Well in short, let’s say that we can start with two proverbs that alone contrast and recite respectively “unity is strength” and “he who does it himself does it for three”.
Who knows which of the two is right, no one knows the answer because they are used in totally different contexts. Unfortunately it is difficult to have a child too.
No one knows the burden one has to bear (apart from children) when two people stop sharing their lives. Having to support both of them equally, never having to answer the question “do you prefer dad or mom”. At the moment of division a chasm opens up for us who in this case are me and my brother. However, of the two of us, I am the one who gets more emotional about everything and also the one who, for example, is more grumpy, gets angrier, gets more attached etc etc… perhaps my brother has gone through this moment, I won’t say calmly but with more motivation to move forward.
It’s difficult to see two people who until yesterday loved each other and today hate each other for life. We must respond to the needs of each of the two and must always indulge them, never meet them and provide them with affection and closeness in moments of greatest need. But this is life, one day you love each other and another you hate each other. You can’t control your feelings and no one has the magic sphere that tells you the future, so life must be lived for better or for worse. Each of the two will look for new stimuli to move forward, and it will not always be easy for us to accept them because they will be other similar decisions. So, in short, it is difficult to keep up with situations like this but perhaps it’s better this way because it teaches me that in future life, when I love a woman and then decide not to love her, I will know what my children will face. I see life as a school that teaches you everything for better or for worse and you have to participate and try because otherwise it’s worse.
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